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Fashion influencers are raving about these 90s jeans – and they’re now on sale
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Abercrombie & Fitch has come a long way since the 2010s and its low rise skinny jeans (thank goodness), though we have heard the skinny jean trend may be making a comeback.
Our latest obsession is A&F’s High Rise 90s Relaxed Jeans, which are the jeans all the ‘It’ girls on Instagram are wearing.
Why are they such a hit? The High Rise 90s Relaxed Jeans do exactly what they say on the tin – they are a high rise denim that are a hybrid of Mom and straight jeans, but longer in length.
High Rise 90s Relaxed Jean
Created from a blend of cotton and elastane fabrics, which offer a structured straight finish like the vintage jeans of time gone by, but with slight stretch for a comfortable fit. It boasts a high rise waist, and a straight full fit. It comes in 37 colours and patterns, though sizes are selling out fast. Fits true to size.
The classic 90s relaxed fit jeans feature a high rise waist, which are not only supportive around the stomach area, but aim to elongate your legs even more. It offers a fitted waist that accentuates your derriere and cinches in your waist, before the jeans fall into a straight full leg.
That is exactly what we love about these jeans – the length. It’s not too short, nor do they drape on the floor like some wide leg jeans, but a happy medium between the two as it sits on the ankles. Plus, it is available in extra short, short, regular, long and extra long lengths, to suit the petite and tall girlies.
These jeans have been crafted from Abercrombie’s Vintage Comfort Stretch fabric, which provides a structured finish, yet offers slight stretch, which is the ideal combination to have a pair of jeans that hold its shape but are comfortable for hours of wear.
These jeans come in 37 colours, prints and patterns, but sizes are selling out fast, and only select designs have been reduced.
Some of the sale styles include the Medium and Dark washes, which have been reduced from £75 down to £56.99. Plus, if you’re a new A&F shopper you can sign up for 10% off your first order.
The 90s jeans have garnered 4.8 out of 5 stars from shoppers. Here’s what the shoppers are saying.
Tania gushed: ‘The most beautiful jeans I own!’
While Ella hailed the design as the ‘best jeans’, the review went on: ‘Fits perfectly, I always struggle with jeans being short but these fit so well! Will be purchasing in different colours.’
Katie weighed in: ‘These jeans have the perfect amount of stretch to be comfortable however they look like stiff denim so they look really expensive. I have multiple pairs in different colours and will keep buying more. The perfect jeans.’
Whether you pair it with loafers, a tank top and bomber jacket, or a shirt, blazer and heeled boots, we guarantee you will live in these jeans forever more.
Considering these jeans are selling out fast, we urge you to shop quickly so not to miss out on the sale price tags.
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From Lush candles to dresses from Rails – this is what a shopping expert is buying
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Another week down, another week closer to autumn – and of course, your next edition of Trend Trove. Yes, once again, our shopping expert has been let loose on the world wide web, and high street – finding you the very best goodies.
Looking for new bedding? Maybe a few candles to make your home feel cosy? Perhaps items for your kitchen? Or a new fragrance? Well, you’ll probably find it in this lengthy shopping guide – full of treats you’ll want to pop into your shopping basket.
And of course, she’s also bringing you the hottest news – from quirky launches to events, weird and wonderful things, and pretty much everything in-between too.
So, what’s been happening this week? Well the major news that’s got our shopaholic excited is Stella Maxwell has joined forces with Marella for an exclusive AW25 capsule, reimagining the blazer with bold tailoring and modern femininity. The collection blends sharp silhouettes with soft textures, featuring standout pieces like a backless body-blazer and the ruched Stella The Star bag. Launching online September 15 and in stores September 18, with prices ranging from £195 to £760.
For those looking for something slightly terrifying to do this autumn, Thorpe Park’s Fright Night. Back from October 3 to November 2 2025, we’ve heard it’s the most terrifying year yet. With scare mazes like Lucifer’s Lair, Creature Campus, and Survival Games, plus live entertainment and overnight stays, it’s the ultimate Halloween destination. Tickets start from £36 online – if you dare to enter the Home of Fear.
Greggs has teamed up with an interiors brand icon to launch its first-ever homeware collection, featuring bean bags and cushions inspired by its iconic menu. Online at Bean Bag Bazaar now, the six-piece range blends comfort with quirky design – perfect for cosy season lounging. From XL Sausage Roll bean bags to snack-stashing gaming chairs, it’s a must-have for Greggs fans looking to relax in style.
Kenwood is celebrating 75 years of innovation with the launch of the Cooking Chef, a premium stand mixer that combines smart tech with precision cooking. Featuring induction heating, built-in scales, a touchscreen with 60 guided recipes, and 31 presets, it’s designed to simplify everything from everyday meals to advanced techniques. We’re ready to have our very own, show stopping moment.
In music news, Canadian singer-songwriter Chloe Stroll gave an intimate performance in Mayfair, previewing tracks from her debut album Bloom in the Break, out September 12. Collaborating with Grammy-winning producers, the album explores themes of love, loss, and resilience through powerful ballads like You’re OK, I Stood My Ground, and Home. Known for her emotional storytelling, Chloe draws inspiration from personal experiences and hopes her music resonates deeply with listeners.
Primark recently launched its first fully integrated UK brand campaign, including its debut TV ad, to spotlight its revamped Autumn/Winter denim collection. The ‘In Denim We Can’ campaign champions great-fitting, quality jeans at unbeatable prices, with 10 hero styles starting from £9 and a standout £12 Palazzo jean. Available in-store and via Click & Collect, the range reflects over a year of improvements in fit, sizing and sustainability, aiming to prove that premium denim doesn’t have to come with a premium price tag – result!
And finally, Apple Martin has announced her first-ever brand collaboration, becoming the face of London-based fashion house self-portrait. Revealed through a series of self-shot portraits on Instagram, the partnership celebrates youthful self-expression and will unfold through fashion films, portraits and activations. Founded by Han Chong, self-portrait is known for empowering women through versatile, modern design.
Still with us? Good. Because debit card at the ready, here’s your weekly dose of endorphins.
NEOM Clementine Wellbeing Pod Essential Oil Diffuser
NEOM has launched a limited-edition Wellbeing Pod, Clemmie, featuring a hand-blown clementine glass cover and upcycled wood base. Exclusive to NEOM and Selfridges, it offers powerful scent diffusion, dimmable lighting, and a calming breathing mode to support better sleep, less stress, and more energy. With over 7 hours of run time and touch-sensitive controls, it’s a stylish and functional addition to any space.
Phlur Cherry Stem 50ml
Get sultry with PHLUR's new cherry scent for the season. With each spritz you’ll find top notes of Black Cherry and Orange Brandy, heart notes of Red Freesia, Sugared Jasmine and Plum Nectar, and base notes of Ebony Woods, Caramel and Soft Leather Accord – the perfect blend for those seductive evenings.
Abbott Lyon Vienna Mini Leather Bag in Burgundy
Add a touch of city chic to your wardrobe with this versatile day-to-night mini bag. Expertly crafted from genuine cowhide leather with a subtle embossed weave, it features a designer-inspired knot handle and a secure zip-top closure for effortless style and practicality. Complete the look with your choice of two dainty detachable charms, making this luxe grab-and-go accessory as personal as it is polished.
Gem Skin-Loving Santal Antiperspirant Deodorant
Stay fresh and confident with this skin-loving 48-hour antiperspirant, enriched with hydrating ingredients like Hyaluronic Acid, Shea Butter and Vitamin E. Its gentle, alcohol-free formula is tough on sweat and odour, while keeping skin smooth, nourished and moisturised. Available in a woody sandalwood and spice fragrance, it’s the perfect everyday essential for long-lasting protection and comfort.
Mason Cash Pumpkin Mixing Bowl
The Mason Cash Pumpkin Mixing Bowl is a seasonal favourite designed for autumn baking and festive kitchens. Made from durable, chip-resistant stoneware, it features a warm orange glaze and embossed pumpkin detailing for a cosy, harvest-inspired look. With a generous 4-litre capacity and microwave, dishwasher, and oven-safe design, it’s both practical and decorative – ideal for mixing, serving, or displaying throughout the season.
Abercrombie & Fitch High Rise Wide Leg Trouser Jean
Crafted from a cotton and lyocell blend, these full-length jeans are comfortable, lightweight yet structured. It features a high rise waistband and a wide leg fit from the hips to the ankles. Available in nine colourways. Sizes range from waist 23 to 38, as well as extra short, short, regular, long, and extra long lengths.
instax mini Evo Instant Camera
The instax mini-Evo is a hybrid instant camera that combines retro charm with modern creativity. It offers 10 lens effects and 10 film effects, allowing users to customise their shots with vivid colour, soft focus, or vintage tones. Each printed photo is also saved digitally via the mini-Evo app, making it easy to share your favourite moments on social media.
Charles & Keith Faux Suede Pointed-Toe Stiletto-Heel Knee-High Boots in Dark Brown Textured
Step into the new season with these chic knee-high boots in rich dark brown faux suede. Designed with pointed toes, sleek shafts and elegant stiletto heels, they’re the perfect statement piece to elevate your transitional wardrobe. Pair them with layered neutrals and cosy knits for a polished day-to-night look that adds instant definition and style.
Hey Dude Wendy Slipper
Home is where comfort takes centre stage, and the Wendy Slipper is designed to deliver just that. With a plush sherpa upper that’s soft as a cloud, these slippers are perfect for everything from meal prepping to binge-watching your favourite shows. Featuring the same durable outsole as the classic Wendy shoes, they’re suitable for both indoor and outdoor wear – making them your go-to for cosy, effortless style wherever you unwind.
Rails Annmarie Dress in Carmine Daisies
The AnnMarie maxi dress features a flattering rayon crepe silhouette with two playful prints. It’s detailed with smocked sleeves, a plunging V-neckline, and a ruffled empire waist, blending elegance with a touch of whimsy.
Roberts Reva
Bring rich, room-filling sound into your home with this stylish DAB+/FM/Bluetooth table-top radio. Housed in an acoustically-tuned wooden cabinet, it features multiple speaker drivers and ported bass to deliver audio with clarity, warmth and depth. Whether you're tuning into your favourite station or streaming via Bluetooth, this compact yet powerful radio is designed to enhance every listening moment.
Olivia Atwood x River Island Red Handmade Wool Blend Scarf Coat
The scarf coat trend is back this season, and this Red Handmade Wool Blend Scarf Coat emulates it perfectly. This long coat boasts a scarf neckline, double-breasted front and waist belt for a cinched finish we simply love.
Tata Harper Nourishing Oil Cleanser
The Tata Harper Nourishing Oil Cleanser is a luxurious, natural formula that gently removes makeup and impurities without stripping the skin. Enriched with antioxidant-rich Sacha Inchi oil, soothing alfalfa, and hydrating squalane, it leaves skin soft, supple, and radiant. Ideal for dry or sensitive skin, it supports a healthy complexion while delivering a truly nourishing cleanse.
Loftie Clock
Upgrade your mornings with a wellness-focused alarm clock designed to help you unplug, wind down, and wake up feeling refreshed. More than just a timekeeper, this device supports deeper sleep and a gentler start to your day – making those early hours feel surprisingly good. It’s the perfect blend of function and wellbeing, helping you ease into your routine with clarity and calm.
This Works Perfect Cleavage & Neck Serum
This youth-enhancing formula combines Marine Algae, Hyaluronic Acid, and nourishing botanical oils to care for the delicate skin on the neck and chest, helping you feel confident while supporting a smoother, firmer appearance.
Topshop Flood Length Cupro Maxi Bias Skirt
Crafted from a viscose and polyester blend, this floor length maxi skirt is lightweight and floaty. The maxi style skirt features a mid-rise waist and has been cut on a regular fit, which skims the body for a comfortable fit. It features a contrast stripe print on a diagonal, and is available in various colourways. It comes in UK dress sizes 4 to 18.
Nooance Paris Elite X600 LED Face Mask
The Nooance Paris Elite X600 LED Face Mask is a premium skincare device designed to deliver professional-level results at home. It features 600 medical-grade LEDs – 300 red and 300 infrared – to boost collagen production, reduce inflammation, and improve skin tone and texture. With a flexible, second-skin silicone design and high light intensity, it ensures full facial coverage and optimal absorption. Each session lasts just 10 minutes, and results include firmer, smoother, and more radiant skin.
Dunelm Fleece Electric Throw
Featuring 6 adjustable heat settings and a generous 130 x 160cm size, Dunelm’s Fleece Electric Throw is a practical and energy-efficient way to stay cosy during the cooler months.
Made from soft fleece and available in three colours: charcoal, navy and taupe, it heats up quickly and evenly. Plus, it’s machine washable, with a detachable controller for easy cleaning.
Gola Classics Women's Torpedo Trainers
Step into retro-inspired style with Torpedo, a standout women’s trainer from the Gola Classics collection. Based on a 1985 archive design, this modern update brings a fresh twist to terrace fashion with a versatile colour palette of red, off-white and air blue. Crafted for those who love blending timeless design with contemporary flair, it’s the perfect choice for everyday wear with a sporty edge.
Marks & Spencer Faux Fur Buckle Trim Coat
Crafted from polyester, which offers a faux fur textured exterior that is ultra soft and insulating. The coat features piping along the hem for a polished finish, as well as gold-tone buckle front fastening. The short jacket falls to the hips and boasts a relaxed boxy fit. Available in sizes extra small to extra large
Mustela Hydra Bebe Body Lotion
Mustela Hydra Bebe Lotion is a gentle, daily moisturiser for babies and children that provides long-lasting hydration and helps protect the skin barrier. Enriched with organic avocado, vitamin-rich ingredients, and a light, fluid texture, it’s suitable for use from birth. The eco-friendly packaging also reduces plastic use, making it a more sustainable choice for caring for delicate skin.
H&M Patterned Wool-Blend Blanket
The H&M Patterned Wool-Blend Blanket is a soft and cosy home accessory made from a mix of wool, acrylic, and polyester. It features a stylish striped pattern and fringed edges, making it perfect for layering over furniture or wrapping up on chilly evenings. Measuring 130 x 170 cm, it offers warmth and texture while remaining lightweight and easy to care for.
Tekla Sateen Women's Long-Sleeved Shirt
The Tekla Sateen women's long-sleeved shirt is a premium, sustainably made piece crafted from soft organic cotton sateen. It features a relaxed fit with refined details like mother-of-pearl buttons, contrast piping, and a chest pocket. Designed in Portugal, it’s certified by GOTS and Oeko-Tex®, ensuring eco-conscious production.
Lush Crème Brûlée Single Wick Candle
For a cosy and inviting atmosphere, this gourmand candle blends soft powdery tonka with warm sandalwood, creating a comforting scent perfect for date nights or dinner parties. Its irresistible fragrance might even outshine your cooking.
Hairification H24 Complex Leave-in Repair Mask
The H24 Complex Leave-In Repair Hair Mask is a powerful treatment designed to restore damaged, stressed hair in just four minutes. Clinically proven to strengthen strands by up to 312%, it features four advanced ingredients: Fibrehance to rebuild internal bonds, Procutigen Bond to prevent breakage and moisture loss, Col-Frag to hydrate and smooth, and Elaya Renova to protect against heat and UV damage. It's the ultimate rescue remedy for healthier, stronger hair.
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‘I’m a former barista and this discounted coffee machine stopped me buying drinks out’
Tired of spending a fortune on pricey coffees out, beauty editor – and former barista – Laura Mulley put this bean-to-cup at-home espresso machine to the test – and was super impressed
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We tested the under-£15 TikTok viral beauty brand – here’s what’s worth buying
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If you’re on TikTok or Instagram, it’s very likely MCoBeauty has appeared on your feed.
Whether it’s an influencer comparing the brand’s £12 Miracle Setting Spray to a £32 designer version, or a makeup artist raving about its budget-friendly bronzing drops, the Aussie brand has become a bit of a viral sensation – and now, UK shoppers can finally get their hands on it as it’s just launched into Superdrug!
There’s no denying that we all love a bargain and MCoBeauty has become known for its affordable ‘budget buys’ of some of the biggest names in beauty (*Ahem* Charlotte Tilbury, Glossier and Rhode).
And, with prices between £6 – £15, it’s no wonder beauty lovers are excited about the launch.
Some might be sceptical of cheaper alternatives, but MCoBeauty products are winning fans over and have countless five-star reviews.
Our Senior Commerce Writer, Lydia Wheatley, put a few of the products to the test.
Our review:
There’s no denying these products hold some similarities in looks to some big name brands, but the similarities don’t stop at the packaging.
These products blew me away – and truly, I wasn’t expecting them to perform as well as they did. I tested a handful of products and used my standard, everyday makeup products to fill in the gaps.
I started with the Flawless Glow Luminous Skin Filter, which blended out easily to give me an all-over glowy base which wasn’t too tin man-esque.
I don’t usually wear these type of glow-enhancing products, but this MCobeauty one left my skin looking so glowy, which I think was enhanced by the Miracle Flawless Setting Spray.
This setting spray has earned itself an instant top spot in my makeup routine, leaving the most stunning luminous base while melting my products into my skin. Truly, my base was absolutely flawless.
Another standout for me was the Cheek & Lip Tint in Rose Glow – a liquid blush that left my cheeks glossy and pink, pairing perfectly with the Glow Up Ph Powder Blush in Blush Red. My photo says it all – the blush is stunning.
The Brow Laminate Sculpt & Set was easy to use and left my brows defined all day long, while the Xtendlash Mascara delivered all the length I could need – though volume was somewhat left to be desired.
Finally, the Perfect Pout Lip Liner and Creme Matte Luxe Lipstick, both in shade Cheeky Chat, aren’t my usual lip shades but applied so creamily and easily that I can’t even be mad. Both simply beautiful.
For the price, these products are total winners for me, and, specifically, I can’t recommend the Flawless Glow Luminous Skin Filter, Miracle Flawless Setting Spray and Cheek & Lip Tint in Rose Glow enough.
Which MCoBeauty products did I try?
- Xtendlash Mascara – £10
- Cheek & Lip Tint in Rose Glow – £6.50
Want to explore more products from the collection? We’ve listed some of the best buys below.
MCoBeauty must-haves:
MCoBeauty Flawless Glow Luminous Skin Filter
The MCoBeauty Flawless Glow Luminous Skin Filter gives a radiant, soft-focus finish for a fraction of the price of its high-end counterpart. Wear it alone, under makeup, or mixed with foundation for instantly brighter, lit-from-within skin. It’s lightweight, hydrating, and a bargain.
MCoBeauty Peptide Lip Treatment
If you’re addicted to peptide lip treatments but can’t quite justify the high-end price tags, try the MCoBeauty Peptide Lip Treatment instead. Delivering a similar glossy, pillowy finish and packed with hydrating peptides, it leaves lips looking fuller, softer, and perfectly glazed.
MCoBeauty Xtendlash Mascara
The MCoBeauty XtendLash Mascara is designed to give lashes length and definition, all without the clumps. Its tubing formula lifts and separates every lash for a natural, fluttery finish that won’t smudge, transfer or flake.
MCoBeauty Highlight & Glow Beauty Wand
MCoBeauty’s Highlight & Glow Beauty Wand gives a gorgeous dewy, radiant finish for way less than high-end equivalents. Super easy to apply with its cushion tip, it blends like a dream and leaves your skin looking fresh and glowy.
MCoBeauty Brow Laminate Sculpt & Set
The MCoBeauty Brow Laminate Sculpt & Set is a must-have brow gel if you're looking for brows that stay put all day. It sets brows in place all day with zero crunch, so you get natural, feathery definition that holds hairs in place all day.
MCoBeauty Glow Up Ph Powder Blush
The MCoBeauty Glow Up Ph Powder Blush gives your skin that fresh, flushed look without breaking the bank. This cult-favourite high-end alternative delivers a natural, buildable pop of colour that lasts all day. Super blendable and lightweight, it adds a healthy glow to any look.
MCoBeauty Cheek & Lip Tint Rose Glow in Rose Glow
Blurring the lines between a dewy gloss and stain formula, this gorgeous Cheek & Lip Tint Rose Glow adds a hint of colour to your cheeks and lips, with buildable intensity to achieve a bolder pop.
MCoBeauty Perfect Pout Lip Liner – Cheeky Chat
In an ultra-flattering nude pink shade to enhance your lip looks, this Perfect Pout Lip Liner in Cheeky Chat glides across your lips effortlessly to create crisp lines, and features a luxurious velvety-soft finish.
MCoBeauty Creme Matte Luxe Lipstick – Cheeky Chat
Making lipstick application a decadent delight, this Creme Matte Luxe Lipstick in the shade Cheeky Chat has a matte finish that envelopes lips in comforting moisture, boasting gorgeous pigment to die for.
MCoBeauty Baby Face Multiuse Cream Stick – Peony Rose
This silky smooth, creamy Baby Face Multiuse Cream Stick is designed to deliver everything from a sheer pop of colour to an intense flush with ease – and can be used on both the lips and cheeks.
MCoBeauty Miracle Flawless Setting Spray
Lock in your look and quench your skin with radiance and hydration with this Miracle Flawless Setting Spray. This beauty essential features a superfine mist and custom atomiser to deliver the perfect amount of product every time.
Whether you’re after a glowy primer, a sculpting brow gel, or a lash-lengthening mascara that makes your eyes pop, MCoBeauty might just become your new favourite obsession.
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The 5 things people typically say when they learn they’re going to die
This week, former royal butler Paul Burrell revealed Queen Elizabeth II’s response to being told she was going to die – and it’s as dignified as you’d expect from the late monarch.
Upon hearing the news she had cancer and may not survive beyond Christmas of 2021, she replied with a characteristically stoic: ‘Well, that’s a shame’.
The 95-year old Queen was hoping to celebrate her Platinum Jubilee the following year, so asked doctors if they could help her stay alive until then.
In his upcoming book, The Royal Insider, Burrell claims she ‘scrupulously’ followed their orders after that, undergoing blood transfusions and even giving up her favourite gin and Dubonnet tipples to surpass the prognosis by months.
While hers was a uniquely regal situation, the way the Queen handled being told her life was ending isn’t out of the ordinary.
Marie Curie chief medical officer, Dr Sarah Holmes, remembers an older patient who, when given a terminal diagnosis, had a similarly stiff upper lip response, saying: ‘Oh well, let’s have a sherry then.’
‘She just kind of took it in her stride,’ the palliative care specialist tells Metro. ‘And I wonder if it sometimes reflects the life you’ve already had and what you’ve done, as that particular lady had done everything she’d wanted to do and tied off the loose ends.’
The fact is, everybody’s circumstances are different, which means each person will react differently.
There are some common themes though – and since we’ll all die (and many of us will lose loved ones) exploring the ways this experience typically plays out can hopefully make it seem like a less daunting process.
‘How long do I have left?’
One of the first things people tend to ask about is time; how long they might live for and whether they’ll make it to certain important milestones in life.
Dr Holmes explains: ‘Like the Queen, people have particular things that they are looking forward to in the future, sometimes quite short horizons, sometimes things much further in the future.
‘I find round about this time of year that people are often thinking about Christmas, so it’s not uncommon for us to bring “Christmas” forward so they can spend one last one with their family.
‘The other thing, it’s like the circle of life, they’re waiting for babies to be born or to see new family members – those kind of key moments are really important for people.’
Dr Paul Perkins, chief medical director at Sue Ryder, recalls helping make similar memories for patients who don’t have long left, with hospice staff planning everything from weddings to Halloween parties.
When it comes to giving exact prognoses though, both specialists agree that it can be difficult to pinpoint – and isn’t always helpful.
‘If people then don’t get the years or months they’ve been told they’ll get, they can feel cheated, or if they get more, they feel like something’s gone wrong and they’ve been misled,’ says Dr Holmes.
‘In reality, we can’t actually give a definite timescale, so I always try and avoid giving any sort of number. I try to look back over time, because the changes usually carry on at that same rate, and talk about making the most of the present and the time we have here and now.’
Support for anyone dealing with death or terminal illness
If you or someone close to you needs support with any aspect of death, dying or bereavement, both Marie Curie and Sue Ryder have resources that can help.
- Contact Marie Curie for free on 0800 090 2309 or visit the Marie Curie website to chat online.
- Visit the Sue Ryder website to access online support communities, sign up for emails, or find self-help tools.
‘I don’t want to know’
‘I’ve known people that just kind of turn their face to the wall, and as soon as they know there’s no treatment, they just almost kind of give up,’ Dr Perkins tells Metro.
‘Others just don’t, don’t believe it at all. Sometimes, you can tell them repeatedly, and they don’t seem to take this on board, and that’s their way of coping.’
Denial is a natural stage of the grieving process, so it’s understandable it’d happen when people begin to mourn their own lives.
‘There are definitely times where people don’t want to talk about it and aren’t ready to talk about it,’ says Dr Holmes. ‘We have to try and tread very softly with these conversations, so we’re not forcing that information on people when they’re not ready for it, but trying to gently bring them to the position of understanding what’s going on.’
In her view, it’s not necessarily a bad thing though; one patient she cared for had been a lifelong worrier, and was so afraid of dying that addressing the issue didn’t help at all.
Dr Holmes adds: ‘Forcing her to talk about it and face things at the end of life didn’t work for her. She just needed sort of everybody to carry on as they normally would have done with her, and that was her way of coping.
‘Usually it’s not that people don’t want the care. It’s that they may not want the conversation about what’s actually happening.’
‘What about my family?’
‘It’s amazing how altruistic we are as humans,’ says Dr Holmes. ‘So often, people immediately go to worries about the people that are left behind, worrying about others rather than worrying about themselves.’
However, the way this manifests can vary, with Dr Perkins explaining: ‘Some people are very organised and immediately produce spreadsheets and folders for their families about how things are going to be.
‘Sometimes we get asked how they should tell their loved ones, and that can be really hard and stressful, telling your kids that you’re going to die. But the advice we give is to be honest, if you can.’
Others will write cards for their loved ones to keep their memory alive, or chat to relatives about funeral plans and help them manage when they’re no longer around.
‘Why is this happening to me?’
Like denial, anger is another grief stage that can crop up when people receive a terminal diagnosis.
‘That might be that they’re angry with god, that they’ve got this condition, or they’re angry with the world, or they’re angry that they feel their diagnosis is being delayed,’ he says.
It’s also not uncommon for patients to ask why this is all happening to them, especially if they’re religious or have an illness related to things like smoking or drinking – in which case they may ‘blame themselves for what they’ve done in the past, despite the fact these things are so addictive and so hard to give up’.
Dr Perkins adds: ‘I look after the loveliest people, people that have had completely blameless lives, and these bad things happen. So much of it is just bad luck.’
‘I’m scared of what death will be like’
‘Pain is a common worry for people, but it often depends on the condition and the symptoms they’ve been having,’ Dr Holmes says. ‘So if they’ve been having a particular symptom, they worry about that symptom being more difficult to cope with. Others are very afraid of being aware as well, of knowing what’s going on when it happens.’
Dr Perkins highlights that death is an ‘unpredictable business,’ which makes it difficult to guarantee what it’ll be like for each patient.
However, he explains: ‘We can reassure them that, particularly if palliative care is involved, it can be a dignified and peaceful thing. Our job is to make sure they’re as comfortable as possible.’
Sometimes, people are so fearful that they delay going to a hospice, thinking palliative care is ‘all about death’.
‘Then they come in and go, “oh, I wish I’d come here sooner, it’s so much nicer I thought it was going to be”,’ says Dr Perkins. ‘Just under half of people end up going home or to a care home, so not everyone who comes in dies.’
As Dr Holmes noted, end of life care is about making the most of the time you have – even if it’s not as long as you’d hope for or expected.
Dr Perkins adds: ‘When people know time is short, they realise that it’s not money or possessions that matter, but relationships and love. I’ve had people where they say the last two weeks of their lives have been the best two weeks, because they spent time with the people that they love.’
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'I caught girlfriend canoodling and now my future lies in tatters'
Resident agony aunt Coleen Nolan has advice for an upset reader who caught his girlfriend in a compromising situation at a party, and now he doesn’t know what to do
Resident agony aunt Coleen Nolan has advice for a lovelorn reader who’s desperate to get back with her boyfriend after she cheated on him while he was at uni
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Shoppers rave over ‘soft and cosy’ Dunelm heated blanket that costs just 2p an hour
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As energy prices continue to rise and temperatures start to dip with the arrival of autumn, many households are looking for smarter ways to stay warm without having to switch on the central heating.
After all, turning up the thermostat for even a few hours can quickly add up on your energy bill.
That’s where small, energy-efficient solutions like Dunelm’s Fleece Electric Throw come into their own.
Designed to deliver cosy warmth right where you need it, this electric throw is a practical and affordable alternative to heating the whole house.
Whether you’re curled up on the sofa watching TV or winding down with a book before bed, the super-soft fleece material and adjustable heat settings mean you can stay snug and comfortable without wasting energy.
Some might be surprised at just how cost-effective electric throws like Dunelm’s can be. It costs just 2p per hour to run but it does a brilliant job of keeping you warm, making it an great choice for anyone looking to cut back on heating costs.
Fleece Electric Throw
Featuring 6 adjustable heat settings and a generous 130 x 160cm size, Dunelm’s Fleece Electric Throw is a practical and energy-efficient way to stay cosy during the cooler months.
Made from soft fleece and available in three colours: charcoal, navy and taupe, it heats up quickly and evenly. Plus, it’s machine washable, with a detachable controller for easy cleaning.
Featuring six heat settings and sized generously at 130 x 160cm, the £32 throw is one of the most affordable on the market and it’s backed by glowing reviews from happy customers.
One review from a shopper named Pam said: ‘Lovely soft luxurious throw, very warm even without the heat on, super cosy when it’s heated, washes well, very pleased with purchase.’
A review left by Jacqui reads: ‘So soft and cosy, keeps you lovely and warm on a cold winter’s day.’
And a rave review from Don said: ‘A very good electric throw heats up very quickly and is an excellent size. Looking forward to staying snug in the winter, I would recommend.’
It’s also low-maintenance, featuring a detachable controller and machine-washable design, so it’s easy to keep clean through regular use.
Plus, there are three colour options to choose from: charcoal, navy and taupe, meaning it blends effortlessly into any room, whether draped across your bed or kept handy on the sofa.
Ready for a cosy autumn/winter season without driving up your energy bill? This heated throw might just be the best purchase you make all year.
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The River Island x Olivia Attwood edit is giving designer on a budget: here’s what we’re loving
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Looking to give your wardrobe a total overhaul for the season? We may have found the perfect place to shop.
River Island has just dropped its newest seasonal collection in collaboration with podcaster, broadcaster and style icon, Olivia Attwood – and by the look of the stunning pieces, we predict the collection is going to sell out fast.
Defined by exaggerated shoulders, cinched-in waists and statement pinstripes, the ‘Borrowed from the Boys Collection’ is a study in contrasts: sexy yet sharp, feminine yet powerful, timeless yet disruptive.
Brown Faux Leather Ruched Mini Dress
We're a bit obsessed with this Brown Faux Leather Ruched Mini Dress, boasting a cowl neck and ruched sides that create beautiful movement and shape. In a mini length and made using faux leather, it's set to become a night out staple.
Perfect for work days to date nights, every piece in the collection has been created to make a statement, infused with Olivia Attwood’s unapologetic attitude and signature confidence.
The result is an edit designed for women who want to command attention without compromise. And yes, we need every single piece.
From structured coats and blazers in standout materials, to sexy dress silhouettes created with stilettos and late nights in mind, River Island is here to revolutionise your autumn wardrobe – without breaking the bank.
With prices starting from just £34, there’s plenty of pieces at affordable prices to help inject some attitude into your wardrobe.
One we’ve got our eye on is the Brown Faux Leather Ruched Mini Dress, a stunning piece that’s yours for just £42.
Boasting a cowl neck and ruched sides that create beautiful movement and shape, this mini, faux leather dress it’s set to become a night out staple, perfect paired with heels and a statement coat.
Explaining her relationship that supercharged the collaboration, Olivia shared in an official press release: ‘I’ve shopped at River Island since I was a teenager. The brand has only improved over the years, so when I saw this collection, I knew I had to be a part of it.
‘It’s so me: tailored, fun, and unapologetically bold.’
She added: ‘The tailoring makes everything super flattering, so I want girls to put these pieces on and instantly feel confident, like, ‘I know I look good.’ That’s the energy behind this whole collection.
‘I don’t chase big statement pieces anymore. I’d rather invest in something versatile that I can style in different ways.’
Ready to explore the collection? Find our top picks from the collaboration below, or shop the whole range here.
River Island x Oliva Attwood – Borrowed from the Boys Collection
Cream Faux Fur Belted Mid Length Coat
This stunning Cream Faux Fur Belted Mid Length Coat is giving mob wife – and we're so here for it. We love the OTT shape and white faux fur fabric, while the long sleeves, pockets and collar will keep you cosy when you're out and about.
Navy Pinstripe Cocoon Sleeve Blazer
Totally eye-catching and perfect for every day, this Navy Pinstripe Cocoon Sleeve Blazer leans into the balloon sleeve trend perfectly. The collarless blazer features a v-neckline with concealed front fastenings for a sleek look, not forgetting the timeless pinstripe design that makes it perfect for day or night.
Black Faux Leather Belted Hotpant Shorts
Make these Black Faux Leather Belted Hotpant Shorts your new autumn staple. Boasting a sleek belt and pockets, they're set to look gorgeous paired with tights and your favourite pair of heels.
Black Faux Shearling Lined Belted Trench Coat
Sleek, cosy and a total eye-catcher, this Black Faux Shearling Lined Belted Trench Coat features a brown faux shearling trim set against black faux leather, with a standout collar, pockets and waist belt for the perfect, cinched look.
Red Handmade Wool Blend Scarf Coat
The scarf coat trend is back this season, and this Red Handmade Wool Blend Scarf Coat emulates it perfectly. This long coat boasts a scarf neckline, double-breasted front and waist belt for a cinched finish we simply love.
Brown Faux Suede Slingback Court Heels
Ideal for your office-to-bar evenings, these Brown Faux Suede Slingback Court Heels are a sleek, wearable pair you'll turn to again and again. Boasting a skinny heel, pointed toe and sleek ankle strap, they're set to pair perfectly with jeans, dresses and so much more.
White Cape Blazer
Sleek, sophisticated and simply stunning, this White Cape Blazer is a unique piece your wardrobe is crying out for. Boasting a cape neckline, it creates a gorgeous, flowing silhouette, while the double breasted front detailing and fitted bodice make it a flattering piece for special occasions.
Brown Leather Animal Print Cross body bag
Lean into the timeless cow print trend with this gorgeous Brown Leather Animal Print Cross body bag. Made with real leather, it features a triple compartment design for all your essentials and zip fastenings to keep everything safe, while the crossbody strap makes it super easy to style.
Red Faux Leather Button Collarless Jacket
Selling fast, this Red Faux Leather Button Collarless Jacket is the staple autumn jacket your outfits need. We love the collarless design and tailored finish, while the gold-toned buttons make it even more eye-catching.
This collection has so much to love…
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